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As a family law lawyer, I can act for clients in any family court proceeding.   In the context of fertility law and trying to start a family, the two common court applications are for:

What is an application for a Declaration of Parentage?​

With proper planning, a family court application for a Declaration of Parentage should not be necessary. However, there are many cases where family find themselves in a situation where they brought a baby into this world without having all of the legal ducks in a row, so to speak.  In these cases, it may be necessary to apply to Court (either as a joint application or as a contested application) for a Declaration of Parentage pursuant to the Children's Law Reform Act.   

A Declaration of Parentage works both ways.  The Court has the authority to declare whether someone IS a parent and whether someone IS NOT a parent.  


Who might need a Declaration of Parentage?

  • The spouse of a birth mother (regardless of gender)

  • The sperm donor, who donated his sperm through sexual intercourse did not enter into a sperm donor agreement prior to conception (i.e., a declaration that the donor is not a parent) 

  • If the intended parent's were unable to obtain the surrogate's consent prior to the birth of the child (i.e., a declaration that the surrogate is not a parent) 


Declaration of Parentage and the law

  • M.L. v. J.C., 2017 ONSC 7179 (CanLII

Synopsis: This appears to be the first reported case following the amendment to the Children's Law Reform Act, declaring the spouse of a birth parent to be a parent.  The new legislation recognizes the spouse of a birth parent if, at the time of conception, they were spouses unless there was some proof that he spouse did not want to be a parent (or withdrew consent before the child's conception).  The Court found that Mark and Jane were the biological parents and Samantha was also a parent, as she was Jane's spouse at the time of the conception.


Declaration of Parentage in the media

What is an Adoption?​

An adoption is a formal change of legal parentage.  As opposed to a declaration of parentage (where a Court determines whether or not someone is a parent), an adoption is where a non-parent legally becomes a parent.  Once the adoption is complete, it severs the legal "parent-child" relationship with the former biological parent.  This can be a very emotional and difficult decision for the biological parent being declared essentially a non-parent moving forward.  


There are many forms adoptions, but Great Expectations only does step-parent or relative adoptions. 


  • A relative adoption is where, let's say, an uncle adopts his niece and nephew, perhaps following an untimely death of the biological parents.  Another example is where someone already has a family and then had an unexpected pregnancy.  The person might let their sibling or cousin adopt the child.  

  • A step-parent adoption is where one parent is the biological parent and his or her new spouse wishes to become a legal parent of their step-child.  As noted above, this could be emotionally difficult for the other biological parent. 

Another common form of adoption is a "Public Adoption".  This is where a prospective parent or parents adopt a child from our foster care system (e.g., children that are in the care of a Children's Aid Society). This is a much more complicated process than a relative or step-parent adoption, as it requires a mandatory homestudy and PRIDE (Parent Resources for Information, Development and Education) training. Despite it being more complicated, there are many many children that need a "forever home", and could benefit greatly by being in a loving and stable home.   Great Expectations does not offer services for public adoptions or international adoptions.

Where the child has a pre-existing relationship with his/her biological parents, sometimes the parties to an adoption will negotiate an Openness Agreement.  This is an agreement that allows continued contact between the child and the biological parent(s).  

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